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[sweety]

Hi everyone,
Im a mum of a few children (7) and 3 of them have spoken about incidents that ive shrugged off until recently.

My 2nd child (boy) at the age of 2-3 often said 'I lived before' when i asked him what happened to him, he replied 'I died in a car crash, it was a yellow car' I thought it rather strange but at that time (1995) i didnt question it, as i didnt give reincarnation a much thought really, now i wish i did!

My daughter (now 7, no older sisters) is the one that goes to extreme detail at times about her 'other family', mainly saying 'i miss my father'

Ive recently asked her questions but she doesnt remember a great deal now, just snippets now and then... the things she said in the past are, (ill try and script it):
(girl) I miss my sister
(mum) you had a sister?
(girl) yes
(mum) where is she?
(girl) shes died now
(mum) oh how did she die?
(girl) she died in the house, she couldnt get out
(mum)what happened?
(girl)the house was on fire and she couldnt get out
(mum)you got out though
(girl) yes i saved my baby brother
(mum) you had a baby brother too?
(girl) yes but my older sister died, i couldnt save her..

This sort of conversation pretty much went on, she repeated the same thing from the age of around 3 till now (7) its fading but nothing changes, its always the same story.
She said her 'other mum' got killed and her father looked after her and her sister and baby brother, she missed her 'father' terribly.

What makes it even more strange is, we have never used the word 'father' before, not even grandfather, its grandad to me, my husband and to my children, father is a very old type of family word i think?? ...seems strange that she used it meaning 'dad' when talking about her old family.

We never thought much of it has my daughter is being assessed, she has severe speech and language difficulties and has autistic traits, although no specific name/umbrella has been diagnosed as yet.

What got us all thinking more into this was my younger son now 2 has started talking about, what we think is a past incident.
throughout the day, but mainly at night, he will talk about a 'crash'
this is our script, as such.
(boy)mummy crash
(mum)crash?
(boy) yes crash, my did it
(mum) you did it?
(boy) no my did it, crash

-a few nights later-

(boy)mummy crash
(mum) crash?
(boy) yes myle did it
(mum) myle did it?
(boy) yes myle did it crash
(mum) whos myle?
(boy) myle crash car, myle gone now

-few nights later
(boy)mummy car crash wall
(mum) car crashes in the wall?
(boy) yes myle did it crash car
(mum) oh dear, wheres myle now?
(boy) myle gone now, blood
(mum) blood? on myle?
(boy) yes me did it, crash.

we've asked him "is Myle a lady?"... ..."yep"... ..."is Myle a boy?"... "No!"... "a man?"... ..."NO!"... ..."a lady".. ..."YES!!... ..."Myle gone, Myle dead". Myle is not a name i've ever heard before, or anybody else in our family or circle of friends and our son isnt at pre-school yet so has no 'outside friends' as such.

He also has his own vocabulary for certain words and always has. For example; 'thank you' has always been "Dung-Di", now this isn't even similar, not even a miss-pronunciation, how does that come about??

Its pretty much the same story all the time with a little more detail every few nights... happens throughout the day, but is
by far most intense when he is very sleepy.

This is why it brought it back to me about my 2nd son, whos now 14yr. when he spoke about 'a crash'???..

Wow, that took some typing!
Thankyou for taking the time to read this, any advice would be great!

Saffy

[little wing]

Some who believe they have experianced past lives, are even able to come up with locations. Often this information allows for research and validation, at least to some extent, to the past lives.

However, I am thinking it possible that spirits can influence children and others to believe the life they describe is their own past life.
I, myself, do not believe in past lives.

Little Wing

[Doieatgel]

Myself being autistic might be able to shed some light on this issue but being as i am too young to be able to make a "real" diagnosis I dont know how much help i wil be.

I have had many a dream about myself being in world war 2 but I normally just dismiss it and till now I had thought i was the only one that felt that he had a previous life. I have noticed that as I grew up my dreams had become more and more violent I cannot really recall much of any of them so I have just kept the details hidden in my abyss of a mind that nothing can escape from. Anyway I can find some details about my "past" life in my family members like for instance gramps(My great grand father) was a pilot during world war two. It is one of the few details i have kept all this time from the dreams. I worry to much wich also might be a peice of that because before i started having the dreams I did not care about anything that happened in the world exept for what happened to me specificly.

[little bang]

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'Dung Di' for Thank you..
That very much resembles German or perhaps a dialect of German, for Thank you.. something like 'Dank dich'..!
I used to believe in reincarnation because I felt it made more sense than the heaven/hell thing. 'Hell' is thoroughly illogical, therefore impossible. Nobody 'goes to hell'. People do seem to like the idea of surviving death though, but what is one supposed to be 'doing' like, forever..?!
These little kids who 'remember' their past lives, are fascinating..! Are they sort of, 'possessed'?? I really don't think so..! Perhaps the Gods are toying with us, playing little games, to make it all a little more interesting..!!
Little Bang as opposed to the Big Bang..!